Erotic Mindfulness Blog

The importance of afterplay

All of us have heard of foreplay – but what about afterplay? I believe that what happens after sex is...

On beauty and body image

“Beauty is truth, truth beauty,” – that is all Ye know on earth, and all ye need to know” (John...

On sexual surrogacy

The topic of sexual surrogacy is a hot one these days, mainly thanks to Golden Globe nominated movie, The Sessions,...

Love her belly

Sadly our distorted Western culture has taught us that to be attractive we have to look a certain way. Not...

Relationship as gate-keeper

Some relationships last a life time. Most, however, do not. The relationship is a mirror for where we are in...

Lower your centre of gravity

Following on from my recent blog on the feminine belly, here are some further thoughts expanding on this (see my...